and then it was Sunday

I bought a phone and groceries and I made a meatloaf that is in my fridge resting before I bake it and I have stewed some chicken for tacos this week. My dishes are done and my flat is reasonably clean. Good thing, as calloocallay came by for the last Six Feet Under of the season! Wah! However, I have an icon to make me happy.

evil_erato said this the other day:

But you know what? If you let yourself, you have enough space to hold both of those points of view at the same time. I just wish that people would get over themselves enough to realize that not everything is black and white.

And I couldn't agree more. Is it so difficult to see things in a nuanced way? To have two superficially contradictory ideas in your head? The absolutism, it's wearying. And it's about everything: fandom, interpersonal relations, global politics. All this my way or the highway and we'll all just be driving aimlessly, with no place to stop. It's worrysome.