jlh: Chibi of me in an apron with a cocktail glass and shaker. (Clio Timeless)
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*headdesk*

Okay, for the benefit of the non-Americans on my flist, I'm going to say this one last time, here, unlocked and uncut:

During the entire f_s flap, one thing that people complained about was expecting us, the writers, to act in loco parentis for all these kids surfing around. This was an absolutely valid argument, and in fact, if you look to [livejournal.com profile] ivy_blossom's post about the matter, she had done everything one can do to keep someone from stumbing upon her work, including registering her sites with the ICRA so they will be blocked by appropriate software. Doing this gives parents the tools to make their own decisions about what their children see.

Now. Currently, on American broadcast television (that is, not cable, so Friends, the OC, Smallville, but not Sex and the City) there is no nudity. It is part of a community decency standard enforced by the FCC--that is, it is a matter of law. It is why the networks have a department called Standards & Practices. There is some nudity in particular shows that air after 10pm (such as NYPD Blue) but those shows typically have a quick warning notice for each airing.

Now, if I were in another country, then of course the community standard would be different and no one would care about the breast because they would see them all the time. You can argue with whether Americans are horrible prudes, and that there should be plenty of nudity on American television. But the actual point is, this is the current standard. With this, responsible parents--the kind that we were calling for during the f_s matter--decide what they feel comfortable letting their children watch. Note that nothing here would prepare a parent for seeing a naked breast in a sport event at 8PM. THAT is the point. It is the unpleasant surprise--not the breast per se--that is at issue.

Snark away, but know that your snark is completely irrelevant.

Date: 2004-02-03 11:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] weatherby.livejournal.com
Slightly unrelated, but I had a dream the other night that fandom_scruples took over the fandom in Umbridge fashion and forced everyone to delete their LJs all over. They were three slightly old women and when I tried to physically fight them, since I was Buffy in my dream, they were tough as noogies.

Date: 2004-02-03 11:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whispersinink.livejournal.com
I shrugged it off. Who cares? I think Janet is just glad good ol Justin didn't grab the piercing.

Date: 2004-02-03 11:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
Exactly. Mothers who are asked to cover up their breasts when breastfeeding in a public place can, and will, sue. (A woman sued Burger King not so long ago).

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Date: 2004-02-03 11:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] debellatrix.livejournal.com
Must be lack of sleep because I'm not sure how the breast feeding fits in with what Clio is saying. So are you agreeing, or feel that CBS's outrage is unwarranted?

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
I'm saying it's a double standard. People are oh so shocked that pwecious widdle Snotleigh saw a boobie on TV but then if they're breastfeeding in a public place and are asked to at least cover up with a napkin or something, they will sue. And they will win. So which is it? Are boobs okay or not? See?

Date: 2004-02-03 12:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anw.livejournal.com
Does this enforced community standard of decency make no provision for unscripted live television broadcasts? And does no-one ever streak at US sporting events?

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:29 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] owlman.livejournal.com
The SuperBowl managed one (http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport1/hi/other_sports/us_sport/3450275.stm) of those as well:
And, after a brief intervention from a streaker, the enthralled crowd were then treated to a free-scoring fourth quarter, which made the NFL finale the fifth highest-scoring in history.

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:32 pm (UTC)
ext_132: Photo of my face: white, glasses, green eyes, partially obscured by a lime green scarf. (Default)
From: [identity profile] flourish.livejournal.com
Well, it is a double standard - and I agree it should be changed, that nudity should be more acceptable - but I also understand why people were alarmed by it. I'd be fine with a kid o' mine seeing that, but other people might not be, and I respect their right to parent their child how they see fit, even if I disagree with their opinion.

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
With something like a streaker, all the network has to do is pull away from it as soon as they can see what is going on--which is what they did; the streaker never made it on air. That's why there is so much hubbub over whether the reveal was intentional or not. If it was intentional, that's an offense, and there will be a fine. If it really was a mistake, then shit happens, and no one does anything.

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
Context, context, context.

If you are breast feeding, that's okay, I think a lot of people will agree with that, mostly because the breast is desexualized. (Also, it becomes a rights issue--must I remain housebound while I am breastfeeding my child?)

If you have a 35 year old man sucking on your breast, well, that's an entirely different story, and the law says, get a room.

And I think we can all agree that the Halftime show was done in a sexual context.

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] debellatrix.livejournal.com
Yes, I do see. I didn't know about the law suits.
Figures.

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Date: 2004-02-03 12:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
Okay, that is seriously creepy, man.

But did you ultimately win?

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Date: 2004-02-03 01:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] weatherby.livejournal.com
I started to organise a plan, but I woke up too soon. I was very creeped out as well.

Date: 2004-02-03 01:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 1anonymous1.livejournal.com
Someone snarked at you over this? I mean, I dont doubt you, its just, I can understand why youd be annoyed.

Date: 2004-02-03 01:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jessindistress.livejournal.com
D00d, I do get what you mean- it's a context issue.

I know having my kid see a breast wouldn't really faze me too much on anything- but had it been something else somewhat taboo- *is trying to think of an example. Can't think of one, but I get where you're coming from*- yeah, it's kind of startling, and I can see why it shocked people. *nods*

~Jess

Date: 2004-02-03 03:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tocomfortyou.livejournal.com
Jesus Christ, thank you. I watch Queer as Folk, but that doesn't mean I wanted to check out her rack with my entire family on Sunday.

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Date: 2004-02-03 03:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pinkfinity.livejournal.com
I won't cover up when I nurse in public, and I think what Janet and Justin did was inapropriate, because it was sexualized nudity, and it really looked like assault in some of the clips/photos, and *that* is not something I think should be on commercial tv sans warning.

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Date: 2004-02-03 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
I keep up with that sort of thing, just so I can *try* to stay on top of anything that might affect FCC rulings and the like. Would rather not get the radio station shut down because I caused us to be fined by the FCC ($27,500 a pop).

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Date: 2004-02-03 04:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
I will say, though, that those who were "shocked" at the breast display (because it was sexualized) would have been shocked long before any boobage popped out. Dancers stripping, Kid Rock wearing the flag like a poncho (I don't like it but I don't think there should be a constitutional amendment banning it) and grabbing his crotch, dancers doing the bump and grind... why didn't these oh-so-righteous people change the channel then?

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Date: 2004-02-03 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
Those who were "shocked" at the breast display (because it was sexualized) would have been shocked long before any boobage popped out. Dancers stripping, Kid Rock wearing the flag like a poncho (I don't like it but I don't think there should be a constitutional amendment banning it) and grabbing his crotch, dancers doing the bump and grind... why didn't these oh-so-righteous people change the channel then?

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Date: 2004-02-03 04:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
You are right that it was sexualized--I don't buy for an instant the whole "wardrobe malfunction" explanation. And yes, it should have been warned, but I'd say from the second the halftime show started parents should have gotten an inkling that it wasn't going to be family-friendly.

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Date: 2004-02-03 04:21 pm (UTC)

Date: 2004-02-03 05:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malachan.livejournal.com
Word!

And that's really all I have to say about that. :D (At least, it is at 1am).

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Date: 2004-02-03 05:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] debellatrix.livejournal.com
Well then, you better not expose your b00bs on the radio.....
:P
Yuk, yuk, yuk.
....unless you're breast feeding of course.
wacka wacka wacka

Can you tell I'm having a week today?
Must start packing soon.
Oh, and from the news, it looks like it's snowing in Nevada. wheeee!

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Date: 2004-02-03 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
Actually, both the NFL and CBS expressed dismay at the entire half time show, which was NOT a family sort of thing. The press and everyone else is focussing on the breast because it was the only thing that was actually against the law.

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Date: 2004-02-03 06:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nmalfoy.livejournal.com
Oh, no, the halftime show wasn't family-friendly in any way. But I guess since the breast-baring (although in some jurisdictions, you can show breast but no nipple; legal loophole? I don't know) was illegal, it's the focus.

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Date: 2004-02-03 09:42 pm (UTC)
phoenixsong: An orange bird with red, orange and yellow wings outstretched, in front of a red heart. (Default)
From: [personal profile] phoenixsong
Last I heard, the "malfunction" was the red lacy bit coming away with the black leather bit.

If you look at this picture, you can actually see that the black leather bit, at least, is indeed detachable. Note the gap in the costume almost exactly at the middle of the bottom.

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Date: 2004-02-04 01:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] haleth66.livejournal.com
Hi. I'm a breastfeeding Swedish mother.
I'm totally with you; breastfeeding in public is about as sexual as somebody eating a hamburger. But I sense another problem here. Somebody at CBS has probably seen rehearsals for the show, while setting up cameras and stuff, so the sexual content was most likely NOT unknown before broadcasting, however live the show. This entire b00b debate somehow seems to obscure the fact that CBS won't broadcast anti-shrub commercials.

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Date: 2004-02-04 04:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
Broadcast television wants to avoid controversy. They don't really show any kind of political advertising whatsoever. (Local stations do, and most political advertising is local, so it doesn't often come up.) They do occasional public service advertising--the sort of anti-drug or anti-smoking stuff that "everyone" can agree on. This is why they wouldn't show the anti-Bush ad.

In the current statements, it very much appears that this particular move was not done in rehearsals. The general content of the show (as Nancy and I discussed above) wasn't particularly family friendly, but I think that was the devil's bargain CBS made with MTV in order to retain young viewers. But in doing so, they have got themselves in hot water with the NFL, who didn't see a lot of the rehearsals and has announced that they don't want MTV to do another halftime show.

So you see, it is actually internally consistent. I'm pretty annoyed that they wouldn't show the anti-Bush ad, but I am very unsurprised.

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Date: 2004-02-04 05:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shusu.livejournal.com
Hi, I came in from the directory; I'd just like to let you know I'm going to link to this discussion again on my LJ, and quote this comment. Everyone's commentary really showed the many sides of this story, for those shaking their heads.

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Date: 2004-02-04 06:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pinkfinity.livejournal.com
Just reposting what I said on toby's lj:

*This* was a sexualized context. I didn't actually see the halftime show and didn't know about other performers' songs about pimping, or their crotch-grabbing, and in that context, any sensible parent shouldve called for an extended ice cream break through the start of the 2nd half, but independent of that, I don't want my son to see anything that sexualized, period. He doesn't watch mtv, and while he's heard older stuff from Brittany and a range of things from christina and madonna, etc., and it's not because of the breasts, but because the context of the content presents an image of women that it, on first glance, and second, and third, sexist and negative. While I understand that the women in question claim it's empowering or they're reclaiming their sexuality, etc., kids don't have the base context in which to reasonably place those claims, so they see it as what it is.

Date: 2004-02-04 10:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] folk.livejournal.com
Hope it wasn't my snark that annoyed you -- but my position is closer to Americans are horrible prudes, and...there should be plenty of nudity on American television, except less forceful and with more polite language. I do think that the current OMGABOSOM!!!!11!!!11! and the overreactions involved throughout the media are ludicrous, and that it's sort of weird that we have this dichotomy between "sex sells" and "no sex, we're British American".

*cannot figure out why he's getting so riled up about bosoms anyway*

Date: 2004-02-04 11:58 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Er. Sorry, no "snark" intended, but why is it that most of the pissed off parents I know are angry over the boob, yet buy little Timmy all the bloodthirsty videogames he can get his grubby paws on? There is a huge discrepency there, which is most prominent in the US (and I'm American).

The point, for me at least, is why can't they direct their ire at a more worthwhile cause? And yes, perhaps it's excusable because we as a country are trained to be prudes from birth... which is just plain pathetic. Plainly put, the sight of a boob should not be that offensive. It's only offensive because people let it be.

Rae

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Date: 2004-02-04 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
It was partly your snark, though you didn't actually annoy me. I guess what I was saying is, I understand and to a certain extent agree with the criticism of American prudishness. I was just trying to point out that prudishness wasn't the issue at hand, that this criticism wasn't mistaken as much as misplaced. And I was drawing a parallel about responsible parenting between this event and f_s. If we want people to trust us, we can't give them surprises. This was probably brought up to me by Heidi's original post, with which I agreed, and I thought her points, plus my own knowledge of American broadcast regulations and economics, were points that weren't in the discussion as it was happening.

Anyway, in any critique of America you don't count as much, you Yank you. *muah*

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Date: 2004-02-04 01:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
You know, I had a conversation about this with a [livejournal.com profile] ali_wildgoose yesterday, and I think that the difference is that with the very large exception of video games (especially first-person shooters) violence is not a contested topic in this country. We know when to expect it and where it is going to be. There are fairly strict boundaries about how it can be shown (note that you might see shooting but no blood). Never mind, of course, that this is an incredibly violent country and always has been.

Sexuality, on the other hand, is highly contested in American culture. There is absolutely no consensus about when it is appropriate, or how much, or in what context. Note that some of the problem Heidi has with the naked boob is not that she was naked, but that there was a man ripping her clothes off. Look at the hot political topics--gay rights, abortion--it's all about sexual freedom for people other than straight men. So the bar is set very very conservative by commercial networks and the FCC in order to avoid offending anyone. It isn't even the average--it's the far conservative.

And therefore, countries with more homogenous cultures, like most European countries, can be a bit more adventurous about the sex in the culture because of this. Here, unfortunately, it's still pretty adolescent. I hate it, but there it is.

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Date: 2004-02-04 01:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
Not at me personally. There was something in the air on my flist. And you know, snark happens.

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Date: 2004-02-04 01:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
And as Heidi pointed out, the breast was seen in the context of a man ripping her clothes off, not necessarily willingly. That's a lot to have to unpack for a five year old, with no notice.

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Date: 2004-02-04 01:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com
And you know, TMI on that piercing. I so didn't need to know this.

The piercing, also, was a reason I thought it wasn't intentional. I very much doubt that Janet wanted the world to know about her piercing. She's not Pink, after all.

Date: 2004-02-04 03:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harlequincy.livejournal.com
For the most part, I agree with you. I think the issue is not whether you agree with the American culture's cootie-based sexuality, but that the boobage was unexpected, and therefore inappropriate.

You can't say, "American's shouldn't be prude anyway, so breaking the law is okay," because that's not true. The law is the law, and whether you like it nor not is unimportant. In theory, the government tries to make laws based on what they percieve as the moral values of the American culture. Those principles of morality vary from person to person, so naturally you can't always have your way. The truth is that no matter whether you agree with the values represented in the law, you have to obey it, or else you are punished.

The laws are there to maintain order and set social boundaries. When that order is broken and those boundaries are crossed, people get really nervous, even if the law is stupid. As you said, it is not important whether Americans are all prudes who just can't deal with a bit of nudity, because that is not the reason that most people are upset. They are upset because it was an unanticipated violation of the law that was forced upon its them.

Ooh, man, that was long. Sorry for taking up so much space. :(

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Date: 2004-02-05 01:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] folk.livejournal.com
[livejournal.com profile] fandom_scruples is an idiot.

Anyway, in any critique of America you don't count as much, you Yank you. *muah*

Hey, self-criticisms, man. I really have been in China too long. :D

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