It was brought on by one too many people linking me to ontd_feminism, being attacked on tumblr, watching people attack each other, and some pro-choice extremist positions on adoption. I guess I'd say, I agree with you, and I thought that what you say is true. But I'm surprised how many people don't, and are fighting about the word in a way that just seems personal and vitriolic. When you see people that you feel are intelligent and that you respect nodding along, it can get a little confusing.