What's odd is what a selfish asshole he is, really, because he sleeps with these horses, and here is this totally accepting woman, who wants to be with him, and all she wants is to be with others as well, and that's got him all pissy. Also, that these people are playing out their relationship on LJ which is always sort of gross.

Oh, and then on top of that the vague but still polite bafflement of the polys.