The best part is that it's actually not all that wanky, especially compared to wanks that go on in fandom. For the most part, it's a very civilized discussion and nobody but that callmesilver character got insulting.

Siriusly, we can't keep civil when someone suggests that our OTP is OOC and these people are having a rational debate about the implications of a guy fucking his horse on his Polyamorous identity.

It's like the less sane the topic, the more sane the discussion.